Thursday, November 29, 2012

The BFF Comes to Visit


My BFF, the one who will be sharing Dickie once he is older, came out for a visit recently. He has wants to come out more often but work has been crazy. For the most part he gets by on pictures, videos and stories. He started so many horses that he is burnt out on the greenie stage so it is working out great for me to take charge right now. I, on the other hand, just LOVE this stage. I have never been the first person to back a horse so this is exciting for me. It is so fun to have the BFF out because he has great advice. He also knows how hard the little things are so his encouragement means a lot. People who haven’t worked with a baby don’t always realize how much someone had to teach their seasoned horse. Our groundwork is still rough around the edges but he knows so much about horses that he realizes the improvements we have made.

The last time he came out I was able to sit on Dickie and practice mounting and dismounting. We were hoping to do more of that since BFF so rarely gets time off work. The next time he comes out might be months from now. It was windy, rainy, and the arena was packed so that was out of the question. Other horses don’t really distract him in the arena but he can still be unpredictable at times and I don’t want to distract kids in lessons. With that in mind, we showed off our round pen skills. BFF remembers our very first lunge session where Dickie didn’t understand what was going on. He also remembers the days when he would throw a tantrum if I asked him not to step on my feet. These days I can say “Hoa!!” and he will stop immediately. If he stops before his shoulder passes mine he doesn’t have to back up. If he takes the slack out of the lead or lets his shoulder pass mine he has to back up.

When he gets into the round pen he goes right to work. He listens to my body cues to change directions and to halt. He doesn’t stop every time a person walks by (he things about it though because he loves people). We showed him how Dickie will move his haunches and shoulders with a gentle touch. He will even move his haunches from side to side with me standing in front of him using the whip as an extension of my arm. Then we practiced side passing and he is getting pretty darn good at it. He does all of this at liberty.

Back at the stable we showed him our newest trick, shaking hands. I just started working on that because it hurts my back when they don’t hold their own feet up. He will also target objects if I point at them and say “touch”. I have a cute little vibrating bumblebee, the kind you use as a back massager. It is great for getting him used to clippers. There are no sharp edges and it doesn’t matter if I break it. First I have him touch it in my hand then, I put it down in the stall and ask him to walk away from me to touch it. Next, I turn the vibration on and ask him to walk over and touch it. He still isn’t convinced he likes the sound but will touch it. He really didn’t like it when he decided to pick up the bumblebee while it was vibrating. It cracks me up that he was afraid of it but that didn’t stop him from putting it in his mouth.

My friend thought we were doing great. He thinks Dickie is gorgeous and loves rubbing him and feeing him treats. He mentioned that he has never taught his horses to respond so much to body language from the ground. He also noticed that even when Dickie didn’t seem to be listening to me because he was looking at other horses, or people, he still responded to my body language and seemed in tuned to me. It got me thinking about the differences between men and women. A 6’2” man like my BFF can control a horse by pulling on them or pushing them with force. I don’t see it as neccesarilly an aggressive thing, they are naturally so strong they don’t even realize they are doing it. A woman on the other hand couldn’t muscle a pony. We are smaller, less muscle mass, and more prone to soft tissue injuries. Do you think because of that we are more inclined to teach our horses to respond from body language or light cues?

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  1. Good question. I think that is entirely possible. As women, we read body language better than men, so it seems possible that we would teach based off that.

    Dickie is doing so good! Wow! You are doing awesome with him :)

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    1. Women are pretty good at reading body language. The first thing I do with a horse is figure out their body language. It makes life so much easier when we know what a horse is telling us.

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  2. hmm interesting thoughts. I'm not convinced that a 200 pound man can still wrestle a horse who's determined. :)

    but I do think that we take a different approach. I also think that sometimes we (women) aren't as firm as required with horses. But I'm not sure if that's a female issue or not.

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    1. You are right, no one could wrestle a determined horse. BFF started trying to get D to move over by leaning on him and Dickie happily leaned back with all his weight. My BFFs extra 8 inches sure makes Dickie take pause when leading him though.

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  3. It took time for me to become more assertive when dealing with my young mare and figuring out what worked for me. Riva is 5 now and looks to me for guidance (something I never would have guessed when she was a yearling).

    I love the vibrating bubblebee to get Dickie used to clippers! We tried clippers on Riva at 3 and it did not go well - this year at 5, she didn't bat an eye at getting her first body clip. Time and age? More trusting in me? Who knows :)

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    1. They are funny when they want to be independent but are happier when you actually take charge. I am suprised at how quickly he is looking to me. I thought it would take longer for us to bond because I am used to mares. They seem to take longer. Dickie on the other hand trusts anyone who had the lead rope and wants to lead the way.

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  4. I'm with Allison! I think we are just more in tune to body language. I'm even in tune with human body language. I always thought it was because I grew up with animals, but maybe it is a female thing lol!

    Dickie has come so far already! You're doing awesome with him. You know it's funny you mention that people who have never raised a baby don't realize how much goes into teaching their broke horses what they know, because I sort of went through that with Chrome. Not so much with the ground work, but when I first started riding him it's like I automatically expected him to know how to steer! It was a funny realization. Now I have to go back and teach him to longe and ground drive because I don't know how to teach it from his back lol. Training and raising a baby has been one of the best experiences of my life. I love Chrome so much! :)

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